A few days ago, we still see the bell a few years to write. That is, marital relations, love the seven-year itch, sudden mental sour, is ah, we have a number of years yet. That is a moment , want to end. Who said that, after seven years will be all right? But after I saw the desperation in seven years.
look back, not only me, there are many people who live in seven on the edge, in seven days, we love, love, work, life, are changing, the love is gone, all the feelings gone, tired of work. even began to numb, to the side indifferent to the people and the cause of the beginning.
and I felt a sudden life as worthless, what makes us strong in it, looked at love from the side passing, simply close your eyes, let the tears in his fall behind, miss each other, is no longer around you. is what kind of sad. fuzzy color seems like a tear to see it.
once love is too young, or do you use the old phrase of the vulgar words, I, the go go, the past did not come, so the day day gone, life is still the heart like the ocean.
no matter how tough, but even hard to, life is not ill-treat us, at least let us know a truth, this world of love, can not fight, can not work, there are some very vulgar language: to give a kind of love, let him put his equal, not love, and soon let go, there is no reason not to love is love There is no reason.
a student, high school began to puppy love, love with a guy a very tough battle, after the entrance exam to earn money to send her boyfriend on the Beijing University in Beijing, rented a house started living together, three years for abortion the man five times, man's reason is not to have children do not graduate.
finally put all thought she only used in business, from a small advertising shop to a very scale of the development planning advertising company, business successful graduation, she hoped that after the matter sorted out her boyfriend to marry her, a happy life together, in her sixth pregnancy, when students received notice of her boyfriend, and this time he personally accompanied her on the operating table, but it has since number of abortions caused by too much loss of fertility.
out of the cold operating room, when her body, he held her hand out, had a very warm pair of hands at that moment surprisingly cold, cold to the bone marrow, she heart trembled, colic, she just did not understand his love for her from the beginning to the end of that second.
he said that to better learning, that he moved out of more than three years food and clothing home, and then use that money three years, where she rented a house with a young woman with him to live in graduate school together. The first seven years she spent in the waiting.
the feelings of high school should be very pure it is true. (This sentence is a friend from our TOM who come to spend, because a soft spot for her on a high school for seven years still had a crush.) Mongolia in the dark for four years where she began to wait four years later, he began a Ph.D., and then another four years. finally graduated, she thought he should perform the marriage, he said Shanghai famous company employed him home a manager, for love, she gave him support, but his career ground to avoid discussion of her marriage, the other is three years.
the second seven years, she was still spent in waiting . I have so many times over a person, so I savor the taste of waiting, There is a better word is He is waiting for a blind head on, she finally decided to ask him to answer. In any case, better than the night struggled to live a good long wait.
in her thirty-year-old birthday. He sent her a bouquet of yellow chrysanthemum. waited fourteen years he would not get married, she finally asked him three words, I'm talking about when, casually, surprisingly dull, I do not know that she did not cry, but I cried, I cried I am not a man, took her in my arms I can not cry love, cry I can not share her pain. In June, the setting sun, feeling whole body cold, my heart Hao Teng Hao Teng.
the first seven years, is to make love fades, the second seven years, is the love gone. she was not in his before, and she was fourteen years with a reason to understand, let alone fight for love can not be forced.
We always heard people say that you should go for, you should try, but really hard to fight the to have the results? struggle to do what is perfect? Some people have the time, it is not the same person you want to be. And some stories, at the beginning of time, it has been written clearly and simply the result a, but we do not want to accept it.
love or not love, the best proof of that is an instant feeling. There is a saying ! love, when there is every reason to love you. Your beautiful, gentle, gracious temperament, are the reasons you love, not love, that is not love, and there is no reason, even desperate to find reasons, the last and does not love an excuse. Only those who love not the time to know how to give the people can not love the real harm it.
met at the wrong time, wrong person, the result is always destined to be a mistake, how can not become right. Think about it, love. work, marriage, how many people after seven years, seven years of a threshold, how many people can safely skip the go.
saw seven years, relative to the seven years, live and eat under one roof with each other for seven years, got tired of it? slowly, no longer dressing for your plastic surgery, no longer pour some tea for you, is no longer the mirror Miaomei you no longer worry about you miss, are indifferent to each other, the stranger, every now and then, if the oath had passed away, no longer the emotional heart-to each other. time to repeat the monotonous and simple, too slack and tired of feeling alienated, love is a romantic , marriage is a reality. but a lot of people do not understand this, including me.
Weapon was to these people, how to avoid, how to fight, how best to maintain the will, but the last aggrieved, pained, injured , and still are those who will fight hard to maintain. Why can not love, smiling face when leaving it? correct the error even if the party came back, but the heart back? really can do everything, such as Xi no scars?
then, when love is gone, we should pretend not to know, and then to fight to save it, or should let go and let each other do?
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