Monday, January 10, 2011

World inhumane to let go

 Saturday, his daughter leave home. Probably not a good car and a little cold cold, coupled with motion sickness, but the main thing is she may not have losses from the previous monthly exam completely out of the shadow, see, she lonely being mixed with a trace of apprehension.
for the daughter, but she usually concerned about the many practical help is not too much, because she is in itself a very sensible and make adults feel peace of mind of the child. As for her learning , although not particularly good, but she also through their own efforts and continue to make amazing progress. Of course, this is not to say what her special talent for learning. I always thought, Words used in the human body should be open to interpretation, has been raised. Sometimes, I also put herself and her daughter do the learning process of psychological comparison. I think the problem they can quickly grasp the key link in the knowledge gained the overall impression, obtained in a decisive choice among the kinds of quick results. should be run, their study did not experience too many difficulties on the road. This area examines the exposure of the school to be too superficial, merely some of the knowledge framework, in line with their thinking exactly advantage. daughter it is obviously not enough of her global view, it is inevitable that overstretched. but she has its own characteristics, which is far better to focus on the extent and persistence to me. such as reading, his is always an interest today, tomorrow, a thought, often Shoubushijuan , but are often superficially superficial understanding; and young daughter was able to hold a stretch to your favorite book read it. to make an inappropriate analogy, their own habits of thinking like a Bay water, the lesson clear, however, nothing more, her daughter's way of thinking but as a clear spring, the number of potential energy in the end probably never have the answer.
the past, whenever her daughter to learn of the obstacles in addition to her own techniques introduced so-called method, always taught to her own tire of a hundred, said, endurance, who insisted to the end who is the ultimate winner. But in the eyes of her daughter talked about her bring greater pressure to bear her.
poor parental love, especially as China's parents. They seem to always make every effort to pay them for their children to seek comfort and peace of mind, which sometimes even to pay to be added to a crazy degree. Many foreigners are incredible. Maybe that in itself reflects the difference between this kind of traditional Chinese and Western culture. Chinese people believe love, and the result is too much love their children as part of his life, the children lost their independence as individual life; Western emphasis on freedom and democracy in the new life the moment they have cut off the children and parents take the initiative to maintain the nutrition communication cord, let the children independence, freedom for children, children growing up in the experience Parents also received the same time without too much care for the enjoyment and pleasure to bring their own.
I do not characterize what the heart of foreign parents, one is better, sometimes I just want: love their children because the parents themselves so eager to forget what Is it worth? for themselves, but also to the child!
is the greatest love. daughter of the way to go after all to rely on her own, end up in her own difficulties to overcome, just like her cold ultimately depend on her own immunity to eliminate the same. At this point, I suddenly think to myself : that he sat in front of the computer beat a silly word, the wife is watching TV.
sleep, would not think of himself tucked bedding? hh musculoskeletal, his can not help but make a shiver.
Yes ah, never left home young daughter, living in tension among the independent study and usher in a cold winter, she has fully prepared to do?
As a father, he can let go; But how can rest assured it!

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